Motherhood has been on my heart a lot here lately. I think it's because of this {extremely} convicting study I've been doing on 1 Peter via this book. I'm not even sure why of all things it has convicted me in this area as motherhood is not the point of the book. I think mainly it's just how I can come home from work exhausted- and that looks anything but gentle sometimes.
In my diligence to be a Light on my campus as well as the best teacher I can be to my students, I sometimes feel like I'm burning my candle at both ends. I can end up forgetting to keep the most important things the most important. More than anything else, that smile is my mission. How often do I really train him and teach him who Christ is? Sure he sees my example- he knows I go into my office and read my Bible. But do I really teach Jude who Christ is, sadly not often.
I desperately want to change this. I want to be the kind of mom who raises godly men (and maybe women someday). Last week, my pastor talked about the judgement of the saints- when Christians will have to answer for how we used the talents and gifts He's given us for His kingdom. I do think I faithfully use those things in my workplace, but I am sadly lacking in my home. As a Christian mother, I think my main calling is raising godly children. My home is supposed to be a place where the Holy Spirit dwells in everything. During the summer, it is so much easier for me to sing hymns and read the Bible with Jude. During the school year, those things are the first to fall to wayside.
What should a Christian working mother's home look like?
This is the question I'm asking myself currently. I won't even begin to act like I have an idea. I am praying that God grow me into that place and show me what it should look like.
I've also been *painfully, painfully* aware of how quick these seasons fade. Jude's interests are becoming more and more 'big boy ish' every day. Less and less toddlerish. He's already 4 years old, and I cry inside every night I realize there are so many moments I just can't get back. Right now, he's still very attached to 'momma'. But time is running out on me. The time of nurturing and teaching him is now. His brain is active and aware and able to make connections. He respects me and believes me. If I don't teach him truth now, I'm going to lose the opportunity to ever teach him. It's sobering and scary, and honestly breaks my heart. I miss my little baby.
And so this Christmas, we are starting some new traditions, particularly with Advent. I want Emmanuel, God with us to be part of our daily conversation. I don't know how you convey the intimacy of the incarnation to a 4 year old, but I want to try. I want to light the advent wreath every night. We are going to read devotionals after dinner. I want to prepare my heart to receive Him, but I also want to teach Jude how to receive Him. The significance of this holiday is so easily lost amidst the hustle and bustle of black Friday deals and lists, lists, and more lists. Yet none of those matter in the midst of eternity. This holiday is about focusing on things unseen that one day, when you least expect it- in a way you never would have expected, the unseen becomes God with us. What we hoped for becomes tangible. The deepest longings of our heart are filled in Him.
Motherhood. The greatest calling. Even in the incarnation, you have the greatest calling of raising Christ Himself. And it all centers on having palms open, receiving whatever gifts He bestows on you with thankfulness and humility. But also dedication and endurance. A willingness to follow His lead when it seems dangerous (being attacked by Herod) or doesn't make any sense (Joseph marrying a girl who appears tainted).
Oh how I pray that Jude will understand the significance of this season....
